Posts Tagged "blogging"

So, I had this conversation with my son…

Posted on Mar 22, 2016 | 3 comments

So, I had this conversation with my son…

Last night, I put my son to bed, said goodnight 15 times and after several hugs and requests for water was finally released downstairs. And then, I heard this: “Mama?” “Yes?” “I want May to be like me.” We talk about May, don’t get me wrong. I never close the conversation down, but he is 4-years old. We talk on that level and until this moment, I’d never heard anything like this. For him, May is May. It’s not shocking, it just is. And, maybe as such he actually deals with it a lot better than I do. He wasn’t even two the first time...

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Welcome nursery people!

Posted on Jun 12, 2015 | 0 comments

Welcome nursery people!

Yesterday, I gave a speech at the National Day Nursery Association’s national conference. And yes, when I was dropped off by the taxi in front of this sports arena that I’m assuming seats tens of thousands, I did think, “What the hell am I doing here?” Thankfully, I wasn’t centre-pitch delivering my speech to a rugby ground of thousands, but a sedate conference room of hundreds. For those of you who saw me ramble through my speech and came here to read more about our trials and successes with nursery, I bring you this easily accessible list of previous posts...

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The video that changed everything

Posted on Mar 12, 2015 | 8 comments

The video that changed everything

Last week, ITV filmed May and I in our housing showing the reality of disabled housing. As we filmed, the reality of our lives wasn’t just highlighted in the piece, but starkly apparent to me. Only an hour later – before it even aired – we received our first contact from Lambeth council. I had to carry May up the stairs; we have four flights at various points in the house, inside and out. In the clip below, you can hear me puffing as I heave her up those stairs. They asked me hard questions, emotional questions that cut to the heart of what our lives are like. Not all of it...

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Hello, Lambeth? I didn’t expect this to happen so soon.

Posted on Mar 6, 2015 | 0 comments

Hello, Lambeth? I didn’t expect this to happen so soon.

On Monday, I posted about our housing problems. By Wednesday, we were finally placed in the highest priority band for housing. Now it is Friday. Only five days later and here today, a perfect example of how families like ours are treated. We used to have a wonderful social worker named Beverly. She was a force of nature. My housing issue would never have been an issue. She would have handled it on our behalf. That’s how good social work is meant to work. As an example, Lambeth are meant to pay us “direct payments” towards our care worker twice a month. Over the course of...

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This is not a joke.

Posted on Feb 15, 2015 | 0 comments

This is not a joke.

A photo to illustrate the lunacy we are up against. This family spent two years campaigning for access to their own home. “We weren’t fighting for a massive steel ramp – we just wanted to improve Katie’s quality of life,” her mother said. Mother’s anger after council install ‘slalom’ ramp for disabled daughter in front garden http://t.co/TI0w9kt0f8 pic.twitter.com/IAVRsnfL71 — Telegraph News (@TelegraphNews) February 13, 2014   What’s the craziest thing you know of that a council has done to “help” a disabled...

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