Posts Tagged "cerebral palsy"

Let’s play the “What we wish therapists would say” game

Posted on Feb 23, 2015 | 0 comments

Let’s play the “What we wish therapists would say” game

After a collective 24 hours in therapies, medical appointments and general ‘Team May’ meetings this week, I have had my share of so-called experts. Because I don’t swear on my blog – and a big hello to my students reading this right now – I’ve decided to imagine a world where so-called experts didn’t make me want to take a sharp implement to their face. In this world, so-called experts say things like: 1. I won’t tell you again that you can’t live in your own home because of May. Until I find you the perfect home, I will not frighten you...

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This is not a joke.

Posted on Feb 15, 2015 | 0 comments

This is not a joke.

A photo to illustrate the lunacy we are up against. This family spent two years campaigning for access to their own home. “We weren’t fighting for a massive steel ramp – we just wanted to improve Katie’s quality of life,” her mother said. Mother’s anger after council install ‘slalom’ ramp for disabled daughter in front garden http://t.co/TI0w9kt0f8 pic.twitter.com/IAVRsnfL71 — Telegraph News (@TelegraphNews) February 13, 2014   What’s the craziest thing you know of that a council has done to “help” a disabled...

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Kids all access… Tower Bridge

Posted on Jan 19, 2015 | 0 comments

Kids all access… Tower Bridge

When you are confined to a wheelchair, it is hard to imagine climbing to the greatest heights. What am I talking about??? We live in LONDON. Wheelchairs top any view if there’s a lift or a wheel involved. A big wheel – the London Eye.  This weekend we hit new heights going to the Tower Bridge Exhibition. The exhibition allows you to take a lift up to the top of Tower Bridge and walk across a glass walkway over the Thames river. The views are incredible. My three-year old especially enjoyed “the show” which was a film in which  life-sized historical figures bickered...

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The Special Needs Sleep Guide or “Sleep? What the hell is that?”

Posted on Jan 7, 2015 | 2 comments

The Special Needs Sleep Guide or “Sleep? What the hell is that?”

It’s 5.30 AM. Why am I up, you ask? If you are a parent to child with special needs you probably already know. May woke at 2.30 and mewed/cried/sobbed for attention until 3.45. I’m trying to retrain her to soothe herself to sleep so I let her “cry-it-out” a method of sleep training used on babies. You let them cry and extend the amount of time in between going in to comfort them. I lay with May the first time, but after that I held her hand or stroked her face. I left her alone and I waited in my bed for the first sound of her complaints which always seemed to...

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What mountain would you climb for the perfect toy?

Posted on Dec 23, 2014 | 1 comment

What mountain would you climb for the perfect toy?

Does the perfect toy exist? What if your child is disabled cognitively and physically like mine is? Check my bank account. I’ve wasted a lot of money trying to solve this conundrum. And yet, we did find the perfect toy. For my daughter, this is her monkey toy. It is a jungle symphony of noises and songs. It is bright so she can see it easily, sturdy so she can smack it at will and has chunky components that activate easily despite her physical limitations. Yes, perfect. She’s had it since she was a baby and it’s lasted five years now. That’s an amazing lifespan for a...

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