Posts Tagged "disability"

What’s happening to May’s hips?

Posted on Nov 11, 2014 | 2 comments

What’s happening to May’s hips?

A year and a half ago, May had a major hip operation. She recovered well. There were some lingering issues — like she still crosses her legs and you can see one of the metal pieces holding her hip bone in place under her skin. Not nice and not ideal, but much better than the pain she had been in. Why did she need surgery at three years old? You probably shouldn’t read this if you are squeamish. In recent months, May has not been doing as well. At the time of her dental surgery, we suspected her pain wasn’t entirely in her mouth and that theory has been proven right. She can...

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Was this year a Halloween fail?

Posted on Nov 1, 2014 | 2 comments

Was this year a Halloween fail?

Every year I dress May up and get her ready to go trick or treating and every year she doesn’t come along. In 2012, it was just the cold and the dark that did it. In 2013, well… May doesn’t understand why anyone would want to go out after dark when they could be cuddling with their daddy on the sofa. This year it was her hip. She needs follow up hip surgery to adjust the work they did last year around her growing body. For the last couple of months, she’s barely been able to stretch out her right leg. I’m chasing it up – but I haven’t received a date...

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What you don’t know about my husband

Posted on Oct 13, 2014 | 3 comments

What you don’t know about my husband

I am the face of this blog. As such, people often tell me how much they admire my dedication to May. What people don’t realize is that my husband deserves much of the credit. My husband is May’s main caregiver. Her bather. Her chef. Her afternoon sleeping companion. She’s watched a full Tour de France. Twice. All because she spends so much time with him. “This is the song that proved May has better taste in music than you, Stacie,” is a typical aside in our conversation. And May does genuinely has a more eclectic taste in music than I do. Why? Because she spends...

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Hello from Bed 1 on the Hospital Ward

Posted on Sep 25, 2014 | 5 comments

Hello from Bed 1 on the Hospital Ward

Remember when that bastard Leukaemia moved back in? Well, now he’s kicked me out of my house and imprisoned me in the hospital. I’m trying to be pissed off and not completely crack up. Basically, what happened was the out-patient chemo they tried over the summer didn’t work. Apparently, that isn’t so unusual with that treatment. Plan B was always more intensive hospital treatment. Welcome to Plan B. I’ll have chemo this week. Then it will take about three more weeks before I’ve recovered enough to return home. After that, we hope I’ll be back in...

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May’s first day at school: DENY. DENY. DENY. (from the archives)

Posted on Sep 15, 2014 | 3 comments

May’s first day at school: DENY. DENY. DENY. (from the archives)

From the archives a post for all those special needs parents whose children are starting school this month. DENY. DENY. DENY. I’ve been there. I’m a few years down the road now and I can say, categorically, it was the best thing we ever did for May. Here’s why: She attends a wonderful school with therapists on call and lots of people who love her. There are all kinds of things there that there is no possible way I could provide: hydrotherapy, dance class, sensory rooms and a massive playground. Hats off to you, parents. This will not be an easy term. Stay strong. You are...

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