Posts Tagged "disability"

Welcome nursery people!

Posted on Jun 12, 2015 | 0 comments

Welcome nursery people!

Yesterday, I gave a speech at the National Day Nursery Association’s national conference. And yes, when I was dropped off by the taxi in front of this sports arena that I’m assuming seats tens of thousands, I did think, “What the hell am I doing here?” Thankfully, I wasn’t centre-pitch delivering my speech to a rugby ground of thousands, but a sedate conference room of hundreds. For those of you who saw me ramble through my speech and came here to read more about our trials and successes with nursery, I bring you this easily accessible list of previous posts...

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The joy of parenting a special needs child caught on video

Posted on May 30, 2015 | 4 comments

The joy of parenting a special needs child caught on video

I almost didn’t use the phrase “Parenting a special needs child” in the title of this post. Don’t get me wrong. I have no objection to the term “special needs child”. I live in reality. I call it like it is. But, sometimes there is no special needs in the equation. Sometimes, like this video shows, children are just children. They have temper tantrums. They get sick. And hell yes, they shriek with joy and giggles sometimes. When May shrieks with joy and giggles, as her mama, I don’t blink back bittersweet tears and think: “Ah, bless. She is so...

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24 hours left to register. Don’t think your vote will count? Think again.

Posted on Apr 19, 2015 | 0 comments

24 hours left to register. Don’t think your vote will count? Think again.

There are only 24 hours left to register in Britain to vote in the General Election. Don’t think your vote will count? Think again. As Tania Tirraoro of Special Needs Jungle points out there are 12 million votes out there, ready to be cast, if disabled people register and vote. According to BBC Ouch, that’s 20% of the voting age population. Tania, who is both a parent to a child with special needs and disabled herself, says: “It’s not just my own health condition that depresses me. Looking up from my own self-pity brings me face to face with the way the Coalition...

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And finally… some good news!

Posted on Apr 8, 2015 | 10 comments

And finally… some good news!

Several weeks ago, I published a post entitled: This is what being disabled and on the housing register looks like. I began: A mother with leukaemia. A five-year old daughter so disabled she can’t even throw an arm around the shoulders of someone carrying her up the stairs to her flat. Over two years on the housing register and no chance of even being shortlisted for a property. This is the reality of being disabled and living in housing completely inadequate for your needs. That was five weeks ago. This week we were shortlisted for a property! We are thrilled because, even if we...

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Hello, Lambeth? I didn’t expect this to happen so soon.

Posted on Mar 6, 2015 | 0 comments

Hello, Lambeth? I didn’t expect this to happen so soon.

On Monday, I posted about our housing problems. By Wednesday, we were finally placed in the highest priority band for housing. Now it is Friday. Only five days later and here today, a perfect example of how families like ours are treated. We used to have a wonderful social worker named Beverly. She was a force of nature. My housing issue would never have been an issue. She would have handled it on our behalf. That’s how good social work is meant to work. As an example, Lambeth are meant to pay us “direct payments” towards our care worker twice a month. Over the course of...

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